It’s not religion or pressure from society that leads to this social phenomena of women pretending they don’t love sex. What is it that makes them say eww when you mention sexual stuff or pretend to be offended when you bring up some perverted topic?
Like most things in life, you only need to follow the money trail to get to the core of why things happen. For the purposes of the rest of this article though, I will interchange the words “money” with “resources”, especially since that’s what money entitles you to at the end of the day.
Remember, when you diminish a woman’s purity (or just purity in general) you are actually costing HER resources. Think about that the next time you wonder why a girl gives you a hard time about getting sexual. You are costing her access to resources. Purity is a hundred billion dollar industry. There is an unbelievable amount of cash in purity stock. It’s just not smart financially for a woman to admit that she loves to have group sex and to pleasure two guys at once. You won’t ever hear this stuff in public because women eventually have to sell some guy the fantasy of purity.
Why Women Hate Sluts
Why do women call other women sluts and get so mad when they show lots of skin? Do you want to know the real reason her friends cockblock you? Because when a woman acts slutty, she lowers the overall price of purity for all other women. Purity like a stock, but the price is not based on the value of the company or a commodity, it’s value is based on a fantasy. The stock price is based on the fantasy that women are somehow less sexual and less horny than us. This is big business, and this is one that the 100 billion dollar industry has no interest in seeing go away.
How much money is invested in romantic dinners, roses, gimmick holidays like Valentine’s Day, etc.,? How much money is spent in a typical courtship of a woman? If women did not even attempt to put on an inkling of the fantasy of purity, would YOU be spending all your resources to please and placate a woman you were out on a date with? If women were allowed to admit how anxious they were to get in YOUR pants, where would the long and expensive courtship process go? We’d be more like ravenous animals than “cultured” human beings.
And so the charade continues, like something straight out of a martyr’s autobiography. The more a woman can resist her desires and fool herself into thinking increased purity gives her more value as a person, the more entitled she feels. In many ways, this is no different than the affliction of the delusional person that believes his one special thing makes him better than others. Whether this is a tangible thing like an expensive car or a characteristic like being funny or alpha, there’s no doubt that at the end of the day, they’re all just empty “reasons” for feeling better about yourself and “reasons” as to why you should feel confident.
Notice how the only chicks who are honest about how much they love sex are the same ones gaining a massive amount of resources from it. For example: take porn stars and strippers.
They will happily admit the truth about how promiscuous they are, how much they love casual sex, and all sorts of other sultry things because they don’t lose any money by throwing purity out the window–in fact, they’ve found a way to make the truth profitable.
What’s your average looking girl say about women of these professions? The only thing she can say about them as a misdirection. Because the truth is that were she were stripped of her purity fantasy, she would fall from the equivalent of lavish royalty to homeless status.
I mean, what would you say if someone were to compare you to Brad Pitt and you needed to keep some amount of respect for yourself? Most likely some little story in your life about how you’re REAL and all these other euphemisms which are all saying the equivalent of: “I have nowhere near the amount of resources this person has, I don’t have the ability to generate them either, so I will make some giant push about something trivial that I somehow believe the other person does not have the ability to have”
Sorry to burst your bubble, but you are not more “real” or in “touch with the people” than the same person who has busted his ass to get to where he is today. In the same way, it is equally ridiculous for some average girl to conclude that she is somehow more worthy of a person or desirable in the long run than another woman who has managed to make a living without relying on the crutch of selling fantasy stock.
There is no Securities and Exchange Commission for your dating life, so the only way to prevent yourself from an Enron debacle is to smile amusingly the next time someone tries to sell you Monopoly property for real life resources. She can make all the assertions in the world of what she expects from you before she will let you into her “Park Place”, but when you know it’s all a big joke, there’s nothing much more that needs to be said.
Just smile.
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I think us girls usually dislike sluts because we know they want attention from men but can’t do it in a classy way. While the topic of your post here is a bit too extreme for me to agree with, I will say that you are pretty much spot on with the roots of it being from jealousy, I mean its not a great feeling to admit to yourself that another human is fulfilling her gender role better than you and there’s only so much you can do about it. It’s definitely easier to trash her and focus on your own positives
Still trying to wrap my head around some of what you said, but I don’t know. Something struck me while reading it as just feeling true in my life too. Great blog man keep it up
Great assesment. How you spotted this being the main reason, I don’t know. But upon reading it, it made total sense. Thank you, for having answers based upon common sense, reason and logic. And not like most other people, who’s answer usually is: “Don’t know”,”Because others do it too” and so on.